1 day before my sister’s wedding, she texted: “You’re out of my wedding—only real family belongs here.” I replied: “Good. Real family can pay for the venue themselves.”

therapy.

I helped Jessica with her college applications, co-signed her student housing lease, and when her tuition bill came—$12,000 a year after financial aid—I paid that too.

Nobody asked me.

That mattered.

Nobody ever sat me down and said, “Myra, you need to carry this family now.”

I simply did it because Dad was gone and somebody had to.

And in my head, I kept hearing him say, “Take care of them.”

I didn’t realize that a promise I had made to a dead man inside my own