1 day before my sister’s wedding, she texted: “You’re out of my wedding—only real family belongs here.” I replied: “Good. Real family can pay for the venue themselves.”

putting down a weight you’ve carried for eight years and suddenly not knowing what to do with your empty hands.

Colleen came over and sat beside me.

At noon, she asked if I was okay.

I thought I was.

She told me I had done the right thing.

Of course I didn’t attend.

But I could picture it.

Diane’s quarter-acre backyard.

The rusted swing set from our childhood still in the corner.

White plastic chairs borrowed from church.

Folding tables covered by cloths that didn’t quite reach the edges.

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