I cooked Christmas dinner for seventeen people, and not one

cried so hard on the drive home that I had to pull into a gas station and wait until the road stopped blurring.

I learned about my granddaughter Emily’s graduation through Facebook.

I mailed her $500 and a handwritten letter explaining how proud her grandfather would have been.

She replied with a short message.

“Thanks, Grandma.”

Nothing more.

When I slipped in the garage and fractured my wrist, Laura promised she would come after work.

She never arrived.

When doctors discovered a lump in my breast and I spent four