I woke up alone in our hotel room in Bangkok. My husband, his mother, my phone, passport, and flight home had all disappeared

evaluating business exposure, identifying weaknesses in complex financial arrangements, and helping clients protect themselves from losses that often appeared impossible until the moment they happened.

I had spent years working with private investors, family-owned companies, and international businesses.

The work was demanding, confidential, and occasionally unpleasant.

I learned to recognize the difference between confidence and arrogance, between a legitimate opportunity and a carefully disguised liability, and between a person who needed help and a person who wanted someone else to take the blame.

Eventually, I established my own advisory firm.