“My house, my rules,” my daughter-in-law said as she took back the spare key, expecting me to stay with the children while she and my son went away for the weekend.

on my refrigerator. Loving the children and refusing to be their parents’ standing child-care plan could fit in the same heart, though I needed a little time to get used to it.

I’d to remind myself of that when I saw the drawing in the morning. The children had welcomed me into their daily lives unaware what their parents had promised me or what I’d given up to stay. I didn’t want my resentment about the adults to become distance from Ethan and Lucy. I could ask about them, remember