“My house, my rules,” my daughter-in-law said as she took back the spare key, expecting me to stay with the children while she and my son went away for the weekend.

read at the kitchen island. She set down her briefcase and sat still wearing her coat. I poured her decaf tea.

“I’m terrified I’ll drop the ball,” she said. “If I stay late, I feel like a bad mother. If I leave, they’ll think I can’t handle this promotion.”

I squeezed her hand. I’d known a version of that fear when Daniel was little and I worked part-time. I told her the children were doing well and that she deserved time to adjust. She smiled through a few tears. It