“My house, my rules,” my daughter-in-law said as she took back the spare key, expecting me to stay with the children while she and my son went away for the weekend.

to the next thing without asking how my day had gone. I told myself she was exhausted; I could see that she was.

A few days later, my three oldest friends sent a photograph from their reunion in Santa Fe. We’d planned it for almost a year. I’d canceled my flight because Claire said she needed me for one more crucial week while she traveled. Martha wrote, “We missed you.” I sat on the guest bed looking at the four places around their restaurant table and the empty one I’d