to build something of my own. I wanted to earn enough money that I would never have to ask anyone’s permission to make an important decision about my life.
My professors encouraged me to apply for graduate programs. One even suggested that I consider a scholarship abroad.
Then I met Richard.
He was charming, ambitious, and certain about everything. He worked long hours, dressed well, and spoke about his future as though it were already waiting for him.
On our third date, he told me he wanted a big family.