remained.
Could I trust a man who had spent years believing that my worth depended on what I provided for him?
And could he genuinely respect me now that I was no longer willing to disappear into the role he had assigned me?
I didn’t know.
So I kept working.
I kept studying.
And I continued meeting with an independent legal adviser to understand my options should our marriage end.
I wanted any decision I made to be informed, deliberate, and safe for me and our children.
For the first