that patio.
I cannot control that.
I can only control what I do with the years I have left.
And I intend to use them well.
At fifty-five, I am no longer the young university graduate who believed love meant sacrificing every ambition.
I am not the exhausted woman who stood behind a patio wall, listening to her husband laugh about her supposed failures.
I am a mother of eleven, a woman who returned to education, a professional who has earned the respect of her colleagues, and a person who