My Husband Came Home at 10 A.M. After Spending the Night Away—For the First Time in 23 Years, I Didn’t Ask Where He’d Been. By Monday, He Realized He Had Lost More Than His Wife’s Trust.

in the marriage, I would continue accepting whatever version of it he offered.

“We got here one day at a time,” I said.

He looked at me.

“What does that mean?”

“It means we both have to decide what happens next. But I can’t keep doing the work for both of us.”

He was quiet for a long time.

Then he stood.

“I need to think.”

I nodded.

“Take your time.”

He left the laundry room.

I listened to his footsteps move down the hallway.

For the first time, I