My Husband Came Home at 10 A.M. After Spending the Night Away—For the First Time in 23 Years, I Didn’t Ask Where He’d Been. By Monday, He Realized He Had Lost More Than His Wife’s Trust.

want to lie to her.

But I also didn’t want to turn my daughter into a confidante for every painful detail of my marriage.

“Your father crossed a boundary with someone from work,” I said. “He has told me what happened, and we’re deciding whether we can repair our relationship.”

Emma closed her eyes briefly.

“I’m sorry, Mom.”

I reached for her hand.

“This isn’t your fault.”

“I know.”

“And you don’t have to take sides.”

She looked at me.

“I don’t want to take sides. I just don’t want