would use her reaction as proof that I was right not to tell her things.”
The therapist asked him what he meant.
Daniel looked at me.
“I created a situation where she couldn’t ask for reassurance without being accused of mistrusting me.”
I felt my throat tighten.
It was the first time he had described our arguments without blaming me for them.
The therapist turned toward me.
“What was that like for you?”
I took a breath.
“It made me feel as though I had to choose between my own
