My Husband Claimed He Was Going to Work Every Morning, Until I Discovered He Had Been on Leave for a Week—Then I Followed Him and Saw Who He Was Secretly Meeting

had learned that trust was not simply believing someone would never hurt me.

Trust also meant believing that when a difficult situation arose, my partner would treat me as someone deserving of the truth.

I had learned that a person could have good intentions and still make deeply hurtful decisions.

And I had learned that loving someone did not require me to accept every explanation they offered.

Eliam and I still had work to do.

We had to rebuild habits of communication, make financial decisions together, and establish boundaries that