My husband gave away every maternity dress I owned while I was at work. When I asked what I was supposed to wear, he kept spreading mustard on his sandwich.

deserved praise.

We spoke several times without his parents present.

Sometimes the conversations were uncomfortable.

He answered questions he’d already answered before.

He admitted when he felt tempted to gamble again.

I told him I could listen, but I couldn’t become responsible for controlling his choices.

He needed support from professionals and people equipped to help him.

On November 3, I invited him home.

But I established boundaries.

We would sleep separately at first.

We would continue reviewing the household finances together.

He would keep attending counseling.

And neither of