My husband sent another woman a huge bouquet of white roses and pink peonies with a card signed “Love, Daniel,” and by one careless mistake, those flowers arrived at our house instead.

“That we were married.”

“Obviously.” He added, “She knew we’d been having problems.”

“Had we?”

He started, “Claire.” I cut in. “I’m serious.”

“We weren’t close.”

“We weren’t close enough for you?”

“Maybe.” I insisted, “No. Say it correctly.”

“What?” I answered, “You were unhappy with our marriage. You didn’t tell me how unhappy you were. Then instead of dealing with it with me, you began dealing with it with her.” After a pause, he said, “Yes.” At last we were describing his choices instead of pretending we’d accidentally drifted