My husband str:uck my mother twice right in front of me and demanded, “Either she leaves tonight or our marriage is over.”

“You didn’t destroy anything, Mom. He did all of this by himself.”

The second those words left my mouth, I realized how many years I had spent making excuses for Brandon.

Whenever he became controlling, I told myself he was stressed from work.

When he complained about my mother, I convinced myself he just needed more personal space.

When he wasted money, I told myself he was simply enjoying the rewards of working hard.

When he handed our money to his relatives, I told myself he was just being a