My husband str:uck my mother twice right in front of me and demanded, “Either she leaves tonight or our marriage is over.”

give him $60,000, he created the missing-cash scheme to destroy her credibility.

He apparently believed that once I became convinced she had stolen from him, I would be embarrassed enough to throw her out.

Then I would return to him.

“He really thought I was going to choose him over my own mother,” I said.

Claire nodded.

“Because for seven years, you always put his needs above everyone else’s.”

Her words hurt because they were true.

I had spent seven years mediating his outbursts.

Smoothing over arguments.

Excusing selfish