MY MIL AND BIL MOVED IN TO JOB HUNT. ONE DAY, I CAME HOME TO FIND MY FRIDGE LOCKED. SHE SAID, ‘TO EAT, YOU MUST ASK PERMISSION.’ I GRABBED A HAMMER, SMASHED THE PADLOCK, AND SAID, ‘THIS IS MY NOTICE!’

into a gaming room. By week four, groceries I bought disappeared overnight while Lorraine criticized me for “wasting money” on yogurt and fresh vegetables.

I tried setting boundaries.

Calmly.

“Please don’t use my office without asking.”

Lorraine smiled. “Family doesn’t need appointments.”

“Trevor, I need the car tomorrow.”

He laughed from my couch. “Daniel said I could use it.”

Every conversation ended the same way: Daniel rubbing his forehead and whispering, “Can you just be flexible? They’re going through a hard time.”

Apparently, their hard time required my home, my