The fifth time my husband stayed out all night, I didn’t call him—I opened his company’s Slack and told more than five hundred employees

interested in what I’d done than in his own betrayal. My legs felt unsteady, and I sank onto the mattress.

“You know what’s interesting?”

He remained silent as I explained the months spent doubting my own instincts.

“I spent months wondering whether I was becoming paranoid. I wondered if I was jealous. Possessive. Insecure.”

“I would see you standing beside her and tell myself there was probably a business reason. I watched you laugh with her in ways you stopped laughing with me. I watched her know things about your