The fifth time my husband stayed out all night, I didn’t call him—I opened his company’s Slack and told more than five hundred employees

this?”

“I’m asking.”

“No, Aaron. I didn’t need your money.”

“Then why did you let me pay for everything?”

“Because you wanted to.”

“You never stopped me.”

“Why would I?”

“Because apparently you could have.”

“Yes.”

I drew a breath.

“But I thought we were married. I didn’t realize every dinner bill was supposed to prove something.”

“That’s not what I mean.”

“I know exactly what you mean.”

The air conditioning was almost audible in the silence.

“You want to believe there was an imbalance between us because that explains