The fifth time my husband stayed out all night, I didn’t call him—I opened his company’s Slack and told more than five hundred employees

did.”

“Not here.”

“I don’t know when it happened.”

“I do.”

“It happened slowly.”

I met his eyes and made myself continue.

“You started coming home later. Then you stopped telling me why. You started bringing Jasmine everywhere. Then you started acting annoyed when I noticed. You stopped talking to me unless the conversation involved a dinner, a schedule, a family event, or something you needed handled.”

“I was under pressure.”

“So was I.”

“I know.”

“No, you know now.”

He winced. I was finished cushioning the truth for his