The fifth time my husband stayed out all night, I didn’t call him—I opened his company’s Slack and told more than five hundred employees

asking you to take him back.”

“Good.”

“I think I finally understand that would be insulting.”

“Thank you.”

“He always thought you were…”

She struggled with the next word.

“Were what?”

“Safe.”

Safe. Not dull, not helpless: dependable. Aaron had counted on finding the same house, the same spouse, the woman who remembered every obligation and appeared when photographs required a wife. People rarely inspect the strength of a bridge while they’re crossing it; they notice only after it fails.

“He was wrong,” I replied.

“Yes.”

“I think he knows