The fifth time my husband stayed out all night, I didn’t call him—I opened his company’s Slack and told more than five hundred employees

than another exchange through counsel. I nearly declined. Nathan asked what I hoped to achieve.

“I want it finished cleanly.”

“Then meet him somewhere public.”

We settled on a quiet Boston hotel restaurant, somewhere neither of us owned the memories. Aaron arrived first and rose when I approached, an old courtesy. We sat together for several uncomfortable moments until he gave me a faint, humorless smile.

“You look different.”

“I’m wearing the same kind of clothes.”

“That’s not what I mean.”

“I know.”

When the server arrived, I ordered my