The fifth time my husband stayed out all night, I didn’t call him—I opened his company’s Slack and told more than five hundred employees

my books beneath our old bed and offered to return it through counsel; I told him to donate it. The normality felt almost surreal. When we stood to leave, he turned toward me.

“I am sorry, Claire.”

I no longer needed to make him understand the limits of an apology.

“I know.”

He nodded, then added:

“For what it’s worth, the money isn’t what shocked me.”

“It was realizing you could have walked away any time.”

I recognized the last misunderstanding between us.

“No, Aaron.”

“I couldn’t have.”

“What do