When We Were 19, My Best Friend and I Promised That If We Were Both Single at 60, We’d Find Each Other – I Turned 60 Last Tuesday, and My Old Landline Rang

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I told him about working at the library while studying to become a teacher.

He complained about cafeteria food.

I complained about people returning library books stained with coffee.

During that first year, I probably knew more about Jeffrey’s daily life than people who lived in his dorm.

Then slowly, the letters began arriving less often.

Every week became every two weeks.

Every two weeks became once a month.

I assumed college was changing him.

But my life was changing too.

I was training to become a teacher.

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