be generous with your knowledge without giving away your boundaries.
And you can care deeply about the people affected by a decision without taking personal responsibility for the poor judgment of the people who made it.
I still believe in doing good work.
I still believe in helping people.
I still believe that every paycheck represents someone’s time, effort, and livelihood.
But I no longer believe I must sacrifice my own dignity to prove those things matter to me.
The next time someone asks what I learned from ten years
