“My house, my rules,” my daughter-in-law said as she took back the spare key, expecting me to stay with the children while she and my son went away for the weekend.

settling into the new routine.

The account marked “Next chapter” grew through the months. Each transfer was money I’d already shown I could spend without planning to. Now it had a purpose I’d chosen. I reopened the Bali folder and studied Sanur rather than treating the pictures as somewhere I’d go only if everyone else needed nothing from me.

I still had a life in my condo. I went to yoga, caught up with book club, and sat down with friends without checking if I needed to rush back for