My husband sent another woman a huge bouquet of white roses and pink peonies with a card signed “Love, Daniel,” and by one careless mistake, those flowers arrived at our house instead.

I corrected him: “No, Daniel. This has been out of my control for a long time. I’m just finding out.”

When Daniel looked away, I knew enough. Not the duration or details, but that something existed between him and Laura. My knees weakened; I sat. He approached, and I raised a hand. “Don’t.” I asked, “How long?” I repeated, “How long?”

“It’s complicated.”

“That’s not a number.”

He tried again: “Claire.” I repeated, “How long?” Finally he admitted, “A few months.”

The admission felt like a sudden drop through the